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I'm Abstinent (Kinda) and I Don't Like It.
To be frank, there’s no “kinda” about it. I DON’T LIKE BEING ABSTINENT! At this point in my life, I think it’s dumb. Yep, I said it dumb!!! Ridicule me. Throw salt on me. Slander my name; I really...
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So, Why Are So Many Women Cheating...Really?
So... Not too long ago, I was having a conversation with a woman about cheating. She wasn't the "cheatee" but *the cheater* and yet, she was finding a way to justify her actions due to the fact that...
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So, Masturbation's Good for You, Eh? Interesting.
Yeah. Well. As a former masturbator, I'm already prepared for the responses from some people on this because what I have realized is that when you want to do something *bad enough* (even when it's not...
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Guest Blog: "A Little Extra Evil: The Result of One Woman's Online Experience"
"For I know the plans I have for you,' declares the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."---Jeremiah 29:11 Several years ago, I was a single...
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Have You Ever Thought About How Porn Makes You Feel?
OK... I'll say this first: This quote has *a lot* of truth to it, but I think we all know that in God's design/formula/intent for sex, it wasn't supposed to be that way (the short amount of time or...
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Sexy or Beautiful?
As a woman who battled with self-worth in the past, this was a regular struggle for me. As a child, I remember watching my mother get dressed for dates with my father and thinking, “Mommy is the...
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On the Worst Day, Why I Stay (in My Marriage)
For many years now, I have asked myself why I remain in this marriage with everything it has thrown in my path to make me question its validity, its purpose, or its benefit. On the worst of days I...
View ArticleCan Women Really Be Sex Addicts?
After a fairly recent imprompto counseling session... I thought this might be something worth exploring a bit. When it comes to the question, "Can women really be sex addicts?", it would seem like the...
View ArticleCharacteristics Worth Waiting For (in a Wife)
Recently, during one of my studying sessions, I heard someone say the definition of wisdom is discerning God’s voice and following it harmoniously. I really appreciate this definition. We’re...
View ArticleWomen: What Defines Your Sex Drive?
So... Last night I read this article on Huffington Post entitled, "Women and the New Pornography: Embracing Our Sexuality". Being that King Solomon was inspired (2 Timothy 3:16-17) to pen that there is...
View ArticleCan You Actually Be a "Casual Porn Watcher"?
OK... So, I would like a bit of insight on something. I was reading an article this morning entitled, "Porn & Relationships: Men's Pornography Use Tied To Lower Self-Esteem In Female Partners" and...
View ArticleDo I Miss Porn?
Do I miss porn? This is a question that I’ve had to ponder several days on. I am 32-years-old, pornography has been in my life for 24 years, as of today, it’s been 123 days of sobriety from porn....
View ArticleSitting on a Million Dollars: The Power of Women
OK... I don't know if you all caught this or not, but personally, I am *really curious* to see how the "sex strike" that the women in Togo have just declared. In order to get their current president to...
View ArticleSo, If You Prefer Your Partner, Why Are You Not Preferring Your Partner?
OK... Just now, I read an article about a woman who has 100 orgasms per day due to something that I've personally never even heard of before: Persistent Genital Arousal Disorder (PGAD). Apparently,...
View ArticleVideo Blog: The Physical Consequences of Multiple Partners
OK two things: It's not the most stimulating presentation, *but the content is very interesting*. Secondly, *so sorry* about some of the video references on the right of the page. Please overlook it....
View ArticleWhat I Wish I Had Known About Sex...Before.
When I married my sweetheart at the age of 27, more than two decades ago, I thought I was sexually smart and confident. But there was so much I had yet to learn. I wish I’d known that TV and movie sex,...
View ArticleAre You Paying for Sex or for "Love"?
"Marriage used to be the ultimate goal of boys and men. Because in the olden days, it was the only way that a guy could get what he really wanted from a girl. See now today, things have changed,...
View ArticleCan You Respect the Porn (Actors) You're Watching?
So... Not too long ago, I was in a conversation with some guys and the topic of strip clubs came up (they go). When I asked them why, they gave some of the "usual" answers: it's a stress release,...
View ArticleWhy Are (So Many) Married People Masturbating?
In the midst of doing some research the other day... I happened upon the website TheMarriageBed.com (a site for Christian couples) and on it, there was a feature entitled "Solo Masturbation in...
View ArticleA Quick Confession of a Non-Porn Watcher
“I’m not a porn watcher but I’ve seen it before and in the back of my mind behind a forbidden door, I turn tricks…” (snippet from my poem Confession)I’ve never been a porn connoisseur. I think it’s a...
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